So last night the bf and I had a chat about the future. He is dying to move out and get a house and get stuff all organzied, while I am yearning to get our own home too there are so many things left undecided, like our finances and exactly where we're going to settle down and set up house and all that jazz. So we're in the middle of talking about where we're going to move to and I was always under the assumption that he was willing to move halfway in between my work and his that way we have equal driving time, not to mention the fact that I've been driving out of my way for over two years to be with him and he just has to go 5 mins down the road but he is set in his ways and man was he ever uncompromising last night.
Him: Well if we move to Tantallon I'm going to have to give up hockey and working late is out cause I hate driving and if you want me to leave work early and end up losing my job well FINE THEN!
Me: Thats not what I want at all, how do you know you can't find a place to play hockey around where we are? And I am so not telling you that you have to leave work early I just don't see why we can't compromise on it cause I really am getting tired of traveling and if I can cut that time down so I have more time to be at home and when we have kids be there for them I would love it.
Him: We're not going to work out.
Me: Why? just because I want to be closer to work, fine then, why not Hubbards then. I just don't want to be on this side of Hubbards further from Tantallon, if you want to we can get a place on the other side of Hubbards but still in Hubbards.
Him: Well why not where Brian and Allison live, somewhere in that area right near the exit.
Me: They live down a dirt road by a lake! I don't want that, I want to live somewhere where I can just go down to the grocery store if I need something and like on a main road or off of it but paved, maybe in a nice little subdivision or something.
Him: Well I want to be around here, I guess I'll just have to live at my moms during the week then.
Me: Well then whats the point.
Him: Exactly.
Me: (under my breath) oh my god.
Him: Well I want to be around here and if I find a place around here that I want then I'm going to get it, besides its my money thats going to be paying for the downpayment on it anyway and I know I'm not being considerate of you and what you want but oh well.
Nevertheless the argument did not end out well. He has decided that I'll get what I want and he's being selfish and he just wants to rant and rave about not getting his way so let him rant and rave. Where as I'm willing to work it out and compromise on things, when it comes to him, if he doesn't get what he wants he's cranky and right now I'm at the point where I feel let him be f**king cranky I don't care anymore.
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